well thank-you all for the help with my girl problem. i have worked out that i will break up with her in 1 week from today. i will do it that way because it will take me that long to build up to say that i don't want to go out with her any more. don't get me wrong i'm not a quiet person...i just don't like saying stuff to a friend that will hurt her feelings. i would just like to take the time out now that i no this girl at school and she is really cool....and i really want to tell her that she is the coolest friend...she listens to me, she talks to me, she treats me normal...i love her. she is the best friend to have!! thank u Anita. thank-you and good nite...