well he has to realize that if you WERENT with him...lets just say hypothetically that you were never with him for a year, you two never happened....you wudnt be the same felicia that matt knows and loves now, you wudnt have the same insight on things you wudnt have the same thoughts... feelings... anything.. so he shud thank him for kinda like shapin u relationship wise. well the only thing he can do is outdo him in a way....be better than he ever was...and he is...so there is nothing to worry about...he has to do less talkin about him and your past and appreciate whats goin on right at this moment; he has to stop livin in the past. and you guys HAVE to start focusin on each other...cuz otherwise the love will be covered up with problems and it will never work out that way. yes communication is key in a relationship but the communication should not dwell on one thing and one thing only all the time. amen.