She just laid there, saying nothing, not looking at me. I tried to talk to her, but she didn't respond. A little later, she approached me and gave me back he ring and the necklas, and told me not to date her and not to marry her because she thought she was ugly. Having that said, she disappeared in the bathroom for almost fifteen minutes. I wasn't quite sure what she was doing, I thought it had something to do with her period, but I learned later that she had cut herself. Rae and I talked about it the next day at school. I'm trying to make her understand that for me, looks isn't everything, it's something, but not everything. Just like looks are something, but not everything. If Rae feels uncomfortable with herself I'll be there for her to talk about it and support her in something she wants to change....just not lip or tongue piercings.