10. You've forgotten your ex Come to think of it, you barely recall what you found so great about him in the first place. 9. You can't stop thinking about him Instead, you are consumed by thoughts of him. He just pops into your head for no apparent reason, and you wonder if he thinks of you half as much as you think of him. You wonder what he's up to and even consider calling him (but refrain from doing so for fear of looking overeager). If he's the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first thing on your mind when you wake up -- and you've even dreamed of him on a couple of occasions. 8. You care about him You truly care about him and his feelings. 7. You find his quirks charming He does and says things that make him different, and you like it. You can't quite put your finger on why, but it doesn't even matter. You like him just the way he is. 6. You have great chemistry You can't be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If you seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar ways, that's a great sign. 5. You don't notice other men as much Although you can't help noticing a beautiful man when one walks by, when you're in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar, while others just pale in comparison to him. Furthermore, you don't seem to be flirting half as much as you used to. You are slowly realising that he's often the only man in the room that matters, and for some reason that suits you just fine. 4. You love spending time with him This one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless. You look forward to seeing him, and don't care much about what the two of you will be doing. Lately, just going for a walk with him sounds like the best way you could possibly spend an evening. Furthermore, when you're not together, you miss him and wish you were spending time together. 3. You don't mind compromising sometimes You don't mind missing a night out with the girls to be with him. 2. Other priorities take a back seat 1. You start thinking about the future and he's in it Not only do you plan to see him this weekend, but you want to see him a year from now as well. When planning your next vacation, you know you want to spend it with him, and not a random beach guy you happen to meet while you're there. this article was meant for men about women but i changed it up a bit. it made me think. i don't know if its all true or not, but it made me think nonetheless. do i love him?