SmrDrmr85: amanda: dont tell yourself your scarred for life. Then you'll believe it. and he wins. tell yourself your stronger now. All though you may not lose your heart as quickly next time, you should be even more determined to love. Im not talking about like man woman love, just love people in general. he broke your heart because you opened up...and now...although it hurts, you will get over it, and you will be better for it. you will know what if feels to hurt, so you will do your best not to hurt others. but you cant say you are scarred. you can be better than that. given this some thought....shelby is right. im gonna try and do this. but i know what my heart is telling me..gonna have to ignore that. i know i miss him. i know i want him back. but lets be realistic. i know i can never get him back. it know it hurts, but i gotta move on....im strong..i can do this.