what a marvelous question... and a while back i had asked many girls i know just how long they waited before having sex for the first time, as well as times after that. i got many many different answers. from what i can remember, they had a range from one month to six months.... the average seemed to be 2-3 months. which sounds about right for me. but then again....should it be love? hahaha i can't believe i'm posting this....but oh well. you're my friends, so it works. besides, i wouldn't mind some feedback. i'm concerned about *ahem* certain people judging me because of it, but in my opinion as long as the girl was truly ready when she did it--not peer pressured, or using it as a device to salvage her relationship, etc.--then it doesn't matter how long she waits. it's nice to be sure that you trust that the guy loves you or cares about you first... but my two main points are this (the pro and the con): pro: heh. it's fun. it's romantic, intimate, and extremely fun. lol plus the glorious feeling that comes with it heh heh ;) con: i have issues with me being naked in front of another person. i'm sorry but i don't think i will EVER get over that....therefore it must be incredibly dark the entire time. so who knows. i guess i'm just gonna do it when i'm ready (which i kinda am? i just....want it to be somewhat special...i don't wanna regret it or be apathetic about it)... i guess it will happen when it happens...