yep. according to the girl's exbf (and i have much info to back up my reasons for believing him, shall be listed below) he cheated on me with her and they are now going out. how nice. here's the whole message. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ (start from the bottom) any time, if ya ever wanna talk more, just IM me, (sungowindownonme). ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: Jordan Date: Mar 13, 2006 9:04 PM no problem, thanks for letting me know.... ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: California Date: Mar 13, 2006 6:57 PM ok now i couldn't get much, but i know they didn't fuck. She said that they made out and (i'm not sure if i remember this part correctly) he had his hand down her pants if ya catch my drift. But i do know that there was "alcohol involved" as she put it. But she's been hanging out with him for a while, i mean last friday (march 3rd) i flew back to see some friends, and i hung out with her, and even then she was going to see him after she hung with me, and she had been talking to me about him for some weeks before that. Sorry about all this Jordan. ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: Jordan Date: Mar 13, 2006 8:45 PM every. detail. see i'm not even hurt but i would love to know....i'm weird like that....thanks for the info :) ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: California Date: Mar 13, 2006 6:42 PM yeah that's her, Wilting Lilly. And from what she told me, it happened a few weeks ago. Idk how far ya want me to tell about what happened between them, so i'll keep my mouth shut unless you want to hear more. message me back when ya can. ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: Jordan Date: Mar 13, 2006 8:20 PM emily.....as in the one who's profile is writhing lilly or something? wow...i.....i didn't know he cheated on me... thanks for telling me... and thanks very much for the compliment.... ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: California Date: Mar 13, 2006 6:09 PM long story, but the girl he so stupidly left you for is my ex from a year ago. I've kept in touch with her (because i moved over the summer to Iowa *yuck*) and i heard bit's and pieces of what was up with her and brett. I got pissed with her when i found out that they cheated on you. And i'm just really tired of her bullshit so i don't even talk to her anymore. Oh and i have no idea why he would want her over you. Just from reading your profile, you're so much better than Emily, and you're a lot prettier. -Zach ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: Jordan Date: Mar 13, 2006 11:30 AM thanks :) ....do you mind if i ask how you found out?....so soon...hahaha ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: California Date: Mar 12, 2006 10:38 PM Hey you don't know me, but i'm really sorry about you and brett. Just wanted to let ya know. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ now here are my reasons for believing this guy: 1. he knew about me and brett breaking up, when i obviously didn't tell him 2. brett mysteriously refused to change his profile status back to single, because he's "too lazy" when he wasn't too lazy to delete the picture of us 3. HER profile now says in a relationship 4. he acted especially distant towards me in front of her, i.e. would not kiss me.... 5. he's been acting really distant towards me anyway since a coupld of weeks ago which apparently is when this happened 6. he hangs out with her ALL the time and they happen to be hanging out right now 7. this zach person is on her friends list, so that part checks out 8. i called my friend crys who is mutual friends between me and emily...and she said it's probably true, when i told her of the zach person 9. he knew about it being a drunken night a few weeks ago, which is what happened... 10. i want to believe him so badly because i don't want to be sad anymore, and this seems waaaaay too obvious to not be true. and this way i don't have to be sad....i can just get even :)