hey...heres a story that one of my friends showed me...it explains itself.... A group of Frogs were traveling through the woods, and 2 of them fell into a deep pit. All the other Frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they told the 2 Frogs that they were as good as dead. The 2 Frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all of their might. The other Frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the Frogs took heed to what the other Frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died. The other Frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of Frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it OUT. You see this Frog was DEAF, unable to hear the others plea. He thought as they yelled at him that the other frogs were encouraging him the entire time. There is Power of Life and Death in the Tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to destroy them. 1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. 2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill them. Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words....it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another. Author UNKNOWN yeah that story really gets me thinkin...i hate the way that some people only say rude things to people...after reading this...im gonna be nice to more people now...even though i really never was mean, now im gonna be nicer....lol as if any of this makes sense...hehehe ya dontcha love my meaningless ramblings?hehehe well laterz gaterz