10:44pmKimberly

hey whats up

10:45pmAshley

not alot. just chillin at home. what about you?

10:46pmKimberly

nothing doing some thinking and getting ready for babe to come

10:46pmAshley

ya for sure

10:47pmKimberly

yah gotta give my doctor my birth plan tomorrow and talk to her abot who is coming in the delivery room with me

10:48pmAshley

strange that you have to plan it out. lol i guess its good to have a game plan though ya know?

10:49pmKimberly

yah she just wants to know if i want drugs or not and that kinda thing

10:50pmAshley

i woul take the drugs. im all for the drugs.

lol

10:50pmKimberly

lol i more then likley have to have a c section

10:51pmAshley

see? all the more reason why you should take the drugs

10:52pmKimberly

lol

10:54pmKimberly

kinda wish josh was going to be there but 99 percent sure he wont be.

10:54pmAshley

did you ask him?

see the problem is timing. if he books one day off and the baby is late or ealy.... ya... not good

10:55pmKimberly

yep he keeps saying he will see what he can do....but we r not on the best of terms right now

10:56pmAshley

:S sorry to hear that.

10:56pmKimberly

dont think he will be any part of babies life at all

10:57pmAshley

i think he will be. why wouldn't he?

10:58pmKimberly

cause all he does is lie to me

or try and say things to hurt me

10:58pmAshley

hmmm yes.... boys can be dicks that wya

my boyfriend dose that too

10:59pmKimberly

i mean honestly if he is lying to me now and trying to hurt me now what will he do when baby gets here

11:00pmAshley

ummmm errr yea, i sapose so eh?

11:00pmKimberly

yep

11:02pmKimberly

gotten to the point where if he is going to lie to me and all that shit that he will have to take me to court for visitation rights to him cause i wont put up with it...like i am even debating on putting him on the birth certificate

11:02pmAshley

thats silly

11:02pmKimberly

gotten to the point where if he is going to lie to me and all that shit that he will have to take me to court for visitation rights to him cause i wont put up with it...like i am even debating on putting him on the birth certificate

11:02pmAshley

thats silly

11:06pmAshley

wait so your not going to do the DNA test now??

11:06pmKimberly

yep i am

Kimberly

but he is not going on the birth certificate...i have nothing to hide i know he is the only one i slept with i think its tpid and silly of him to want it but im not going to tell him he cant have it... i want it done before him and i get outta the hospital

11:08pmAshley

oh i see... umm well.... but then the kid won;t knwo his father. and in the future there would be complications too.

11:09pmKimberly

he will always no josh is his father i have made a poster wall of pictures of josh and taylor and ashley i have our family pictures and i have made a photo album of taylor for baby

11:10pmAshley

aww thats good :)

11:11pmKimberly

he wont never know who he is but at the same time if i have to keep josh away to prtect him i will

its one thing to promise me sumthing its another to promise a kid something

11:12pmAshley

why? josh isn;t a threat. and then he won;t have a dad

11:12pmKimberly

id rather have him not have a dad then have a dad who is going to lie to him

11:12pmAshley

the baby isn;t even born yet? josh hasn't promised naything to him

you don;t knwo that though

your mad cuz Josh and you are in a fight. you always are.

no one grows up in a perfact house but that baby will NEVER forgive you if he finds out later that you were the one that prevented him from seeing his dad

11:14pmKimberly

i couldnt careless if we are fighting im the one who is telling him to bring my stuff down and never speak to me again

not if i tell him the reasons why like protecting him from josh and his lies

11:15pmAshley

then you would be lieing

11:16pmKimberly

you guys dont see josh as a threat cause you guys see and hear things that he wants you to see and hear

11:18pmAshley

i know what i see form Taylor and what she tells me (send as a message)