Sometimes it's really really hard not to tell someone "fuck you" after they appologize for being a dick and still manage to say it in a way that makes them a dick. And then you realize that they're only telling you this because their friend reminded them you exist. And then it's even harder not to covertly hit on their friend. But I'm going to lose weight and smoke less and so why shouldn't I be able to resist? Hah. Empowerment.