{.163.} Here We Go Again

Feeling: thankful
So here I am. Again. Jesus. I always do this to myself. You’d think I would have learned before. But nope. I’m doing this again. Fuck. I’m such a retard. Why. Why. Why. I am so lonely. So lonely. More lonely than I used to be. It’s like having a boyfriend and not being able to even talk to him makes me realize just how alone I am. I mean, this is a two sided sword, because I mean if I didn’t have him then I would complain more. Believe me. and I’d rather be with him. I really would. Because I do care about him. imensely. I am just sad, because I know he doesn’t feel it this deeply. And that scares me. and then there is this jealously I have. And that makes things even worse. Because I am just an idiot. A stupid retarded idiot. Who doesn’t deserve such a great guy who looks past this monster of a girl, and really does care. And really does say, “this is my girlfriend” you know. Who is proud of me. and I think he is. I really do. Maybe he’s scared. Maybe I should talk to him. and then there’s the other girl. Who has a crush on him and insists on telling him this every chance she gets. And he seems to like it, and put up with it. and tell me about it. which makes me so fucking sad. and scared because she is prolly prettier. And smarter. And lovelier. Hell any girl is like that compared me. so why does he have me? am I just an insurance policy? I don’t know. But I can’t get him off my mind. I can’t. and I’m not sure if I want too. Then, there is this stupid adding stress of math that I def do not need. And it pisses me off. Because I SHOULD be done it. I should have my fucking summer. But I’m stupid. And I didn’t even pass math. Seriously who fails grade 10 math. A fucking retard does. Aka. Me. Then, I have this stupid meeting thing. There’s a possibility she’ll put me on meds, or I might have to go to a “self harm” group. I don’t even think my self harm is that bad anymore. I actually think I can manage it by myself. I just need to cut a bit deeper. I mean, I realized. I need that blood. That flow of blood I used to get. I don’t get it anymore. That’s prolly why I am oh so stressed lately. Well that’s it for me. 'Cause when there's you, I feel whole And there's no better feeling in the world But without you I'm alone And I'd rather be in love with you
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Your welcome. I am totally serious too hun. You should love yourself and see yourself as others do.

:)
is your hair naturally red (is it even red, cause i may be blind)? i think you're pretty!
[glambastard]
[Anonymous]
ok, be prepared, this is gonna be a long one...lol

aww, sweetie! *hugs* where do i even begin?

youre not an idiot. not at all. and youre not a monster, youre beautiful. you can ask anyone that knows me, i wouldn't lie about that. and obviously this guy does care. you need to believe that, and most importantly, you need to trust him.
[Anonymous]
because if something does end up ending your relationship, it would probly be that before anything else. i know its hard, but you have to have faith in him. he probly lets the other girl tell him that she likes him and stuff because its flattering. it makes him feel good about himself. but that doesn't mean he takes it seriously. he likes you, if he didn't he wouldn't be going out with you.
[Anonymous]
you need to learn to feel more secure in your relationship. i know its hard, but youre just gonna have to trust him. and when he tells you something he likes about you, listen to him, believe him. when he tells you youre beautiful, he means it (because its true). you gotta learn to love yourself at least a lil bit : for me?
[Anonymous]
and youre not stupid :( i know lots of people that have failed math, its freaking hard. i myself just barely passed my last math class. so either were both stupid, or were both not...and im kinda hoping were not :) lol

and as far as the whole therapy thing goes...listen, i know its scary, but you need to give it a chance...maybe it can help.
[Anonymous]
i know cutting can be great, trust me, there was a time when i never thought i could stop, i never wanted to stop... i was hooked, i loved it, the rush, the high, everything about it...

but listen, that feeling won't last forever. it'll be harder and harder to get that...and in the end, all you'll have are scars and wishes that you could somehow erase them and the memories attached to them.
[Anonymous]
think about it...you cut because youre stressed, right? mabye something really bad happens, and you do it really bad. eventually, youre over whatever it was, but that scar will always be there, haunting you, reminding you...do you really want to remember every little bad thing that ever happened to you?

i can't make you stop. i know i can't, and im not stupid enough to think i can change your mind about it...
[Anonymous]
but im here for you, ill always be here for you, whenever you need someone to talk to, all you gotta do ask, and im here.

do you have AIM or anything like that? if you do and you'd like to talk, let me know, i have AIM, MSN, and yahoo. and if all else fails, theres always email ;) lol.

i ♥ you!
[Anonymous]
and hey, if you need some cheering up, go here and try putting in your name.

its a slogan generator, basically it takes whatever word you give it and put it into a random slogan. some ive gotten are "They're Always After Me Brandi." and "Have You Had Your Brandi Today?" and "Brandi: My Anti-Drug."

lol, it makes me smile, maybe it can do the same for you :)

[Anonymous]
Your right, it isn't my fight, but I can't take how this person is treating my friend, almost everything she is saying is bullshit. And no one else seems to be sticking u for her so I did.

Sorry if I have offended you
[Anonymous]
lol, i love you too, glad i helped you ;)

[Anonymous]
i ♥ your diary & fob!!

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look,A. this "girl" for get about her, if shes throwing her self at a guy with a girl frien then she dosnt want anything out of the relationship. B. If he realy wanted her he would have left by now. C. if he hadent of found something good in you then you wouldent have him in the first place. D. dont let people give you bullshit about talking about your problems, and y u cut and crap. i got sent 2 a counsellor so ill "feel good" its total bullshit
continued. . . Councoleing made me feel worce, all you needis a real good friend that you can talk 2. P.S if you realy want to, me and my friend can come and kill the girl for you :D :P

:P foreverinsane :P
wholy crap. You think REALLY low of yourself.
I mean, I don't say that I'm pretty or anything, and I know I'm fat, but honestly.. why do you choose to say that you're stupid and fat? Does it get you anywhere? I'm not saying it's true that you're stupid and fat, I'm saying what does it get you for saying it? and everyone is beautiful. Honestly... just think... you could be uglier.
--Steph