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Word of the Day: mythomania I want to thank you all for your kind comments and concern. Sorry I worried you all so much. JD told me two things which quite devastated me. I won't go into detail, but he did say he was unhappy and had been for a while. I really thought it was the end, my head was moving at astronomical speeds. I was asking for answers when I knew I shouldn't have, and I think we both overreacted. Needless to say, I don't know if things are all right or not because I still need to say some things to him to make things clear. I did tell him, however, that I wasn't going to let him run away when things got hard. I know he did that in the past with things, but I told him when we first got together and I told him again Friday night that I was not going to let him give up. I promised him that. I know we've both got communication problems and we're both a little selfish, but those are things that can be worked on, right? People can change, can't they?
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you aren't alone!
-love you
-Kim
[Anonymous]
people can change, especially in relationships. if you both have your hearts in it and want it to work, it will. i hope youre feeling okay. keep us posted.
you wait too long to update. im getting an ulcer here.

-sarah
[Anonymous]
awww i'm so sorry ash. people can change, and if you and jd both want to make things better, i think you will be able to. it might be hard work, but what marriage isn't? i wish you both the best of luck, i hope things get better! i'll be praying for you guys.
Hang in there, Ash....
I will say this. People CAN change, but only if they are willing to.
No one can make them do it.
Be strong.
*big hug*
I'm just checking back into sitD and low-and-behold, I'm back at your diary. (I'm just gonna add you as a friend. XD)
I'm sorry to hear about that. :(
Did you try tell him he will never recieve sex from you ever again if he leaves? That'll motivate him.
I'm a horrible person, I'm sorry for that. I'll be praying for you guys. =)
I definitely believe people can change if they want to work at it. Problem is, a lot of people I've run into aren't the type who stick with it. It's so much easier to run, and I hope he will stay and work through it for his family. I love you guys, and I hope the best for you all no matter what.