It occured to me today how different we are. Which is cool, it would prolly get really really boring if we had everything in common. Common things bring us together in the beginning, untill we can learn to accept and relish each others differences. Its like how we find our imperfections as beautiful as our perfections. A few things came to mind when I was thinking about what we like differently. The music you find really relaxing I find shrill and depressing. And the music I like listening to you describe as "stoner music" and depressing. But we both like a few of the same bands from each side. I find the lion haired models with their odd head to body ratio interesting and extremly sad. You look at them and run screaming. Its not like I blame you or anything, if I wasnt so sickeningly fascinated by watching their bones walk through their skin I would run too. But we both hope I never end up like that. I look at the exotic make up samples like I would look at a peacock or a zebra at the zoo. You see circus when I point them out to you. But we both agree that I couldnt pull it off. I look at the dirt covering my body and shrug. You get dirty and you have to wash it off. But we both agree that being clean feels alot better. You would rather drink and I would rather smoke. But we agree that both arent good for you. You like to cuddle when you sleep and I am a very solitary sleeper. We still like to take naps together. All in all I think that we are a yin yang. On the whole we are different, but we both have little spots of things in common inside us. Its good to be different, its good to revel in it, to take joy in it. To realize that your way isnt the only way, that different people are surrounded by different lives. You are more audio while I am more visual. But that just lets us experience life with both. I try and understand what you hear and you try to understand what I see. As a couple we are seeing and hearing life all around us, rather than just seeing or just hearing. It lets us live a more full life. I love it. And I love you.