"Are you going on saturday?" "I dont think so" "Why not?" "Because its her, she's always been competitive mom, I dont like going places where I am gonna have my face rubbed in bull crap." "But she is you sister." "Sister is just another name for girl who has the same parent, it doesnt mean anything." "You cant have that bad of a relationship with her." "If I do its not all my fault, she pushes and pushes and never gives back. There is no reason for me to deal with that, and I am not going to." "But you have been talking lately." "Yeah, she doesnt feel like talking to me for three months and then in the past week she has called me everyday. She only talks when she needs something, I dont want to be used like that." "You are happy for her arent you?" "You know, I would be more happy if she didnt feel like everything she has is just a tool to make me feel like crap." "She doesnt feel that way." Yeah she does mom, you know she does." "But she really wants you to see her new house." "Yeah, her new house that she got by begging her super-rich in-laws. The one that she didnt have to do anything for, while me and my husband are just working to feed ourselves." "Its just a temporary place, you know that." "Yeah, but still. Mom, I know I am being incredibly selfish, but I really dont want to deal with it. She has a house, we almost had a house and then lost it the last minute. Her husband just got a job making at least 3 times what we do a year. She has the cutest little id and is pregnant with another, while we dont even know if..." "So thats what this is about..." "I guess so."