It dosent bother me that much to be honest. My dad is my dad and there is nothing I can do to change that. He's a part of my life that even tho its impossible to tell most of the time. I'm not fond of his new wife I only met her once so I don't really know yet. But I never really see or speak to my dad so its not hard to cope with. My mum is more important to me. The most important people in your lifes are the ones you love and the ones that love you back. That dosent always mean your family. I know you must love your dad and I do love mine, but your relationship must be different with him than mine. So I don't know how it makes your life different. See with me my dad never told me get got remarried he just did and he hasent lived with us for a few years, so it dosent change must. I still never really see or speak to him, I think you should maybe talked to your dad about this. Tell him how you feel?