Do you know what's worst then getting your heart broken?

Watching someone you care aboout get theirs broken, or worst yet your older silbing.

It's heart break centeral in my house right now, my poor older sister just had to move back home after living with her boyfriend for about two years. I didn't see this coming, they seems like a perfect pair but as we all know to well life can be quite the shitshow sometimes.

I feel bad for her, I really do. To see her like I was over Tyler and the B factor kills me. Even tho her and I have two very different ways of dealing with this stuff. I tend to lock myself away deal with it alone. Talk. Talk. Talk is all her and I seemed to do today, and I can only give her advice based my own experieces.

It's funny how different her and I are when it comes to these sort of things, How to deal with it, what to do about it. I told her to relax and let things cool down for awhile, let him think. It's always best not to stress over these things, even tho that its close to impossible your mind is always thinking about it and everything little thing reminds you of that person, the random crying, the pain, the sadness. Love is a drug it is the Dope of emotions and heartbreak is withdrawls, and there is no magical pill or drink that can get rid of these withdrawls, the only cure is time.

I believe her and him will be ok and get back together, I think he is just going thru a little rough patch in is own life and needs some time to think and figure some things out. depression can do a lot to a person and we all need alone time sometimes. It's always important to know who you are. To know yourself by yourself on your own. You need to get inside your own head sometimes and understand how you think, see the world and how you see yourself.

I know that I need alone time sometimes, as funny as it sounds I think about how I think somestimes, I think about the problmes in my life and how I look at them, most of the time I see that it's not really even a problem at all, its just sometime silly, we over analyze things, we think to much, some of us are to quick to anger and don't take the time to reallly think and understand. I find that I undertsand people well, I can see things thru there eyes. We do things for a reason but sometimes we focus to much on what happens and not the reason why it happen, you have to find the reason before you judge.