so. ive been thinking. a lot. about this whole "disrespecting the boyfriend" load of crap. ok. not a load of crap. but its how mike and kyle feel about girls talking to their exes. well. ok. naieve. it really irritates me. that two people who dont even know what its like to still WANT to be FRIENDS with their exes, can talk so much about something they dont know. i guess what brought this up is Todd and Heather's breakup? i dont know but. kyle said that him and mike agreed that heather shouldnt talk to her ex so much because its "disrespectful to the boyfriend at the time". what the fuck. you guys dont know shit about what its like to go through something like a relationship like that. you still want to be friends afterwards. you still want to talk. youre over it. dont want to be with them anymore. but want them in your life. you cant pretend you just didnt know them. like see the thing is. is that i would HOPE kyle would still want to be friends with me after we break up. if we do. i dont think him or mike have ever been in a relationship where that was... i mean. where they felt that way about the person. i mean. i bet. fifty dollars. im that sure of it. that mike. will still be friends with laura. after they finally break up. i just bet. hell still talk to her. and i hope kyle would be the same way with me. no matter what happens between us. but. i think theyre both so.. young. niaeve in the way they think. god its irritating. now, dont get me wrong. i love kyle's thoughts. i love it when he reads me his notebook. but. i mean. thinking like this... is soooo inside the box. i mean. why should i be able to talk to cresten? how is that soooo fucking disrespectful to Kyle? im with kyle. i love kyle. cresten knows this. we just talk. i dont get it. i hate to say. but i think if thats all the break up was about. then id be on heather's side. or well not take sides. but i agree with her. as much as i dislike her.