my view (for a depressing moment): that i'll end up a lonely old lady, never meeting a partner, going to work, coming back to an empty house, having no social life, whilst charlie has a husband, is out enjoying herself and has lots of mates Charlie's take: that i'll be highly qualified, have a brilliant well paid job, nice house, brilliant bloke, nice kids, whilst she is married to a wife beater & comes round to mine crying all the time, and has lots of kids, all by different fathers. well two very different views, neither of us really knows what will happen...