nice guy called last night. said he had been sick the past week. he didn't sound so swell. he asked me what i was doing that night and i lied and said hanging out and drinking with my brother. i had to lie because what else could i do? say hey i don't want to hang out with you because i have no self control? how do you tell someone you recently slept with that you're now abstaining from sex? any suggestions. nice guy (C9) said he would call me later to see what i'm up to. i know we'll kick it again eventually, but for now i need time to myself to figure things out.