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by sexyhair on February 28th 2005, 12:00AM

i have a headache, boo. i need to make an appointment to renew my birth control, i'm down to my last 2 months of it. also need to do my assignment for photography class, i always wait til the last minute to do things and i hate it! i'm such a procrastinator. that guy friend of mine that i hooked up with a few weeks back wants to hook up again. i told him i was planning on staying in next weekend cuz i need to tone it down with the partying, and he said that he would come keep me company. looks like i'm having sex this weekend. so far we have a friends with benefits sort of relationship...not sure if it will evolve into something more, and at the moment i don't know if i would even want it to be something more. i've never really been the serious relationship type. fear of commitment? nah. i think i just haven't found anyone i like enough to be with for a long period of time. i seem to be looking for something that doesn't exist. i've always been a firm believer that love finds you, and that its not something you look for. so i'll just keep being me until it happens. i have way too much time to think, i need a good book to read and get my mind off things...anyone read any good books lately that they can reccomend? and friends with benefits...good idea? bad idea? anyone else have a friend with benefits? or have had one and can tell me how that turned out? thanks in advance for any feed back i receive.

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thanksss for the comment...it was a pretty good weekend. nice diary

[Anonymous]

actually i dont think they should teach it..cuz then kids will find out that theres a way to lose weight nd what not.. but on the other hand i guess u do learn alot from it.. well have a nice day =)

<3

[blissfulx]

As long as you can keep the feelings for the guy out of the relationship GO FOR IT!!! As for the procrastination...I am bad at that too..I have a research paper due tomorrow and haven't started on it yet..oops!

[uncontrolable]

thanks. I like the traffic light one too.

[cscizoran]

thanks
daniel

milkshake

Friends with benefits will turn to one friend having feelings while the other doesnt. And then it starts to suck and you wont be friends or lovers. Make a decision about what you want and fight for that accepting nothing less. Once you obtain that hold it forever. I wish I had known that 7 years ago.

Thank you dear =P You're a sweetheart, I appreciate the compliment, I'm sure I'd be able to say the same if you had a picture posted =P. Well have a wonderful night, and tomorrow morning! Mind if I add you to friends sweetheart?

well thankyou.

thanks for the comment :) oh man, my summer BETTER work out or i'll be reaaaaaaally pissed off. gahh. anyways, how are you?
have an amaaaaaaazing day♥

[surfnaked43]

friends with benefits are fun... just watch out for it

[xgetxnakedx]

Thanks

[jimmypage]

Thanx for the comments on my diary!!!
Ive had FWB..and its never worked out..but u might be one who can deal wit it..as long as neither of u have any feelins for eachother..then things might work out..but its up to u!!
I agree wit u on the love will find u thing..when i wasnt looking for love i found it..now im working at it!! have fun this weekend whether u get together or not!! loves xox
~maggie

That was me, btw.

They should really move the "Anonymous Note" button to the other side. Seriously.

[jeff]

Ive had a few "friends with benefits" situations. They never work out. Someone always gets burned. Its like communism - its good in theory, but never works in reality.

It may start out fine and dandy, but it never ends well - someone wants a relationship while the other doesnt. But as long as the ladder isnt you, go for it! FWB sex is good stuff. Given the chance, Id have another FWB.

Thanks for the comment, btw.

i believe that love finds u as well, dont go searching for it, because then it leads to rushing usually and then thats where it leads to a downfall

i agree with the whole let love find you thing . i really needa keep that in mind.

umm and for the whole FWB thing i dunno. like i think of most guys as bein the same just tryna get some play anyway they can so like i dunno. even if i wanted to do somethin with them knowin what their intentions were would stop me. but im not sayin thas how HE is gonna be i dunno. ima shut up. i dont even kno about this stuff.

thanks for the comment, i say "hit it and quit it", the illustrious words of my old hs hockey coach

all of the friends with benefits that i have had no longer speak to me. and that's how it goes 99.5% of the time. maybe you're in that .5%, though. maybe not. only one way to tell, i suppose, and that would be by having loads of kinky beneficial sex this weekend and seeing what happens.

i never learned how to read.

[nick]

oh how rude of me...have a swell night as well.