so about 4 years ago i met this guy on rateusa.com (ha ha yeah im a loser whatever). he was 16 i was 18. he was sooo gorgeous. hot surfer with the gorgeous long hair and everything. not sure if i ever talked about him on here...i think it was a year before i started writing on sit. but anyways, i met him and we hung out a few times. it didnt work out because back then i drank a lot. and he didnt drink at all. like to the point where he didnt like to hang out with people while they were drinking. anyways, long story short he stopped talking to me because of my drinking like many guys have done since then. i was heart broken. 4 years later (like a couple of weeks ago) he immed me and wanted to hang out. he has been living in venice since he was 17 but comes home to yorba linda every once in awhile to visit his mom. he spent 2 hours one day trying to convince me that he's changed and he wants to hang out but i kept saying no. then again the next day he spent about another hour trying to convince me but i still kept saying no. well that night i was realllly bored so i texted him and we ended up hanging out. i am so glad we did because i had a lot of fun. he drinks now and isnt judgemental anymore. i guess he's grown from age 16 to 20. we played kings cup with his friends, i got him really stoned off of some bomb medical marijuana i had, and we fell asleep on the couch together. never kissed or anything. i talked to him the next day and he said he was so stoned he couldnt move, that he wanted to kiss me but couldnt move. ha ha. 2 weeks have passed and we've been talking, and im going to venice tonight to hang out with him. he knows i'm not going to sleep with him yet so i hope he respects that. it will be different without a lot of people around. eh i'll just get him too stoned to move again ha ha. he wanted to come to riverside to visit me last weekend but i just moved back in with my parents. such fucked up timing. anyways, that's my update for now.