Ya know those times when someone is being stupid And you are telling that person what they're doing is stupid, like giving them a lecture or critizing their choices... hoping they'd 'see the light' so to speak and understand what yer yelling at them enough to change... and in the mist of giving this lecture You realize...you aren't yelling at them.... You are yelling at yourself. One of those awakening moments. I had one of those today. For James: "I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean, Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens, Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance, And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance....I hope you dance. I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance, Never settle for the path of least resistance, Livin' might mean takin' chances but they're worth takin', Lovin' might be a mistake but it's worth makin', Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter, When you come close to sellin' out reconsider, Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance, And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance....I hope you dance. I hope you dance....I hope you dance." Don't give up James.