On the flip side.... I don't know if it's healthy for me to plan my future with a man I don't know and be totally okay with those thoughts.... I looked up Long Beach, CA - I think that's where he's from - and I'm totally psyched. I could totally live there with him. It's like...near an ocean! I've never been to one of those before..Even if I just visit him... I feel so much more comfortable imagining marrying some guy I don't even know that well, verses the ones that are in front of me that I do get to know. Kinda sad... But I think it makes sense. _______________________________ 6:00pm I just found that my future husband has been visiting my home almost everyday this week.... Think he misses me? I THINK Soooo.... Totally sucks that I can't write him... Like no communication whatsoever. The lesson to be learned from work today: Don't get a divorce. Especially if you have children. Page 15 of 24 and still on the Parents Cooperation and the emotional section of the petition... haven't even gotten to the financial situations and what not. Some of this is just...ridiculous. "The parties shall have a co-parenting relationship which will be built on trust respect" "The parties shall listen to each other and do their best to understand the other's point of view" I think this is my favorite: "The parties shall live by the golden rule that they will treat each other as they would like to be treated." If they couldn't do that the first time around, why the hell would they be capable of doing it now? Isn't that the point of this petition? They CAN'T accomplish these steps together.