does living with someone ruin ur sex drive? I mean. I havent actually had sex yet. but i'd like to think of myself as a pretty passionate person. and lately.. I've felt like the passion is sort of.. dwindling? not so much for me but in our relationship as a whole. its like.. we are so comfortable around ech other. we dont have to look perfect every 5 seconds because we already know we're not. we already know all the flaws and whatever. but thats kinda the problem. is there a point when you should draw the line? what should be seen overtime and what is better left unsaid? is our drive for sex contingent on the mystery we put around certain things. certain flaws. and once you cross the line, can you go back? is it too late? is that why most married couples eventually stop having sex? or is that just a myth? does it depend on the couple? or on the mystery? its not like i want sex every 5 seconds. i havent even had it once. but geez... at least want to have sex with me. i just feel like... since everything is out in the open.. when we finally do the..dooo. its just gonna be weird. and like.. ok what now? nothing special or exciting cuz we killed it. and i looked so hot tonight(well for me). i cant say that a lot cuz i really hardly ever look decent but it was a great hair day and my skin was soft and i was wearing booty shorts and a shirt... and what is the reaction i get? a nothing.. absolutely nothing. and im being playful with him and we're laughing having a good ol time and eventually he's saying we should go to sleep.. so i do this thing were i just cant shut up cuz i know if i do he'll fall asleep. and it turns into rambling and gibberish until i just confuse myself.. only to realize.. its just not happening. and its stupid. cuz... all this crap about women not wanting it after a while or not being in the mood or just not being sexual as men.. its all a bunch of crap. its not the women. its the stupid oblivous guys who dont even know whats right infront of them. no no.. he would rather sleep. psh. what gives? why cant we go back to the beginning when all he wanted to do was kiss me for hours. and just holding me was enough to excite him. was it all a joke? cuz it isnt funny.