What is this crazy obsession over stupid and incredibly misleading phrases like "whatever happens happens" and "everything happens for a reason" i will KILL the person who made them up.. Seriously though what gives? Like they are soo profound and great advice??? NOOO. they are HORRIBLE HORRIBLE advice..s. They are. Because Whatever happens doesnt just happen. NO. YOu make your own decisions. Decisions make things happen. Things dont just fall into place. NO NO NO. they just dont. nope. and some things DO NOT happen for a reason. they really dont. i can name so many reasonless somethings that have happened andreally didnt need to because either i already had the lesson before it happened or it was just nonsense. its all just nonsense. whatever happens happens?? who says these things?? gosh.i mean if i hadnt told my brother about being molested we'd still be at that church and who even knows what would have happened. but i decided to. if i hadnt moved in with tim.. who knows where i would be. I made a decision. I did this. whatever happens happens is just something people who dont get their way want to say to themselves to make them feel better or something. well great for them. im not getting my way but im not going to blame it on fate or destiny. i chose my destiny. and i have made a lot of bad decisions. but they are what they are. whatever happens, it was all in my hands. I guess Im just clumsy.