So timmy was really nervous today about calling pam. but after a long nap and some encouragement.. he pulled thru and it wasnt as bad as he thought it'd be. SOmetimes he builds things up in his head into bigger situations than they are.. but he really does get better at this stuff every time something comes up. he was afraid she would try to get him to go with another loan with her, but we already signed all the paper work with this other guy so he didn't want to deal with telling her that it was like too late and such. he said she was actually worse than he thought she'd be. she does this thing where you try to talk but she talks over you.. he had to say "well what i was saying..." and stuff like that like 3 times to actually get her to stop talking. its weird. she told him like 3 different times that the place wasnt fha approved and today on the phone she actually said "i never said that". why would tim just make that up? plus he talks to me about conversations with pam like right after he gets off the phone with her to keep me updated. and i remember her saying that. he also tells michelle right away too and she remembers. and when tim asked why she didnt offer us the fha loan when she was capable of doing so and why she didn't even make it an option.. she didnt even answer him.. she just said "well if you want to do an fha loan then we'll do an fha loan..." but its like.. if its so easy to do it.. why didnt she do it before? because when we asked if we had other options, the only thing she mentioned was an adjustable rate or something.. and she had plenty of time to bring it up.. and never did. its weird. she's weird. the conversation basically ended with tim saying if she wanted to get us a better loan than what te guy is giving us, we'll consider going back with her but otherwise we're sticking with him. she said she was going to compare rates and call us back. tim said he doesnt think she is going to call us back and it was more of just a way of getting off the phone because she realized she messed up and felt well.. im guessing kinda stupid. she called michelle after we got off the phone and got mad at her for not telling her sooner. first of all, michelle is like one of the nicest ladies I've met and also, she had nothing to do with our decision to go with this other guy. but yeah.. its all taken care of now so hopefully things go smoothly from now on.
escrow hasn't actually started yet. it should start in a couple days and then 30 days from there we get our keys :] we're going to plan it out so were still in this apartment 2-3 weeks after we get the keys so we have time to paint and decorate and move in and such. plus we kind of want to plan our honeymoon so we pretty much leave on our last day in this apartment and when we come back we go to the new condo. but thats soo fast! we looked at tim's schedule so it'd probably be around the 4th- 17th of July. On july 1st he'll be able to gets paid vacation. so he'll get 8 days paid and only be on non paid vacation like 3 days. we're kind of confused about what i should do about a job. we dont know if i should keep looking or wait until we get back. because if i find something in a week or 2 and then ask for a 2 week vacation like 3 weeks later.. would be weird.
i have school tomorrow. i should be in bed.
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